Gay News (2)

•March 20, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Bruce McKinney, who for more than 35 years collected magazines, pamphlets and underground newsletters on alternative lifestyles, has donated his collection to the Spencer Research Library at the University of Kansas.

Library officials say the collection, documenting the history of gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transsexuals in the Midwest, gives insight into the experiences of the gays in the Midwest.

“This addition could potentially put us on the map for GLBT materials in the Midwest,” said Tami Albin, undergraduate instruction and outreach librarian at KU.

Sherry Williams, Spencer Research Library curator, said the library’s Kansas Collection covers Kansas history from statehood to present time.

McKinney’s collection of more than 160 boxes strengthens the holdings the library already maintains, Williams said.

“It is also one of the largest gifts of its kind we’ve ever received,” she said. “Bruce has really done a lot for researchers by handing this over to our university.”

McKinney, of Wichita, chose the library because of Lawrence’s history. The town was the first in Kansas to have a gay organization.

McKinney’s collection is currently in storage at KU until cataloging is complete.

Source:http://www.kansascity.com/news/breaking_news/story/1095101.html

Gay News

•March 19, 2009 • Leave a Comment

DUBLIN (AFP) — Ireland celebrated St. Patrick’s day with its world-famous exuberance Tuesday, providing brief but welcome relief from the economic gloom gripping the recession-hit country.

In bright sunshine, hundreds of thousands of revellers turned out at parades across the country, while Irish pubs around the world joined in the celebrations to mark the Emerald Isle’s national holiday.

“This is our time for showcasing the spirit of the Irish through our wonderful culture and heritage, our gift for friendship and our love of life,” said President Mary McAleese.

As over half a million people swarmed onto the streets of Dublin, she called for a “determined effort to find joy in adversity, and a moment of distraction from serious economic and financial worries.”

The Dublin parade was to involve more than 2,000 performers including street theatre companies and marching bands from the US, Canada, Germany, Italy, Bulgaria and Ireland.

The traditional feast day of Ireland’s patron saint has become a six-day festival aimed at showcasing the country and giving an early kick-start to the tourism season.

Budgets for festivities have been cut back this year but there are still some 70 parades taking place across the country.

For the first time in years, at least half of the government is staying at home for the national holiday — traditionally ministers fan out round the world to promote Ireland on the back of the celebrations.

But Prime Minister Brian Cowen was due to have a 40-minute meeting with US President Barack Obama in the White House, and present him with the traditional bowl of shamrock, Ireland’s three-leafed floral emblem.

Obama was to get a copy of the birth certificate of his great-great-great-grandfather who emigrated from Moneygall almost 160 years ago. The village is in the central county of Offaly, Cowen’s power base.

Cowen’s office says talks were to focus on the global economic crisis and recent developments in British-ruled Northern Ireland, where two soldiers and a policeman were killed in the first such deaths in over a decade.

St. Patrick’s Day is one of the most recognised national holidays on the global calendar and is an excuse to party from Pretoria to Paris, Warsaw and Washington.

Ireland has a worldwide diaspora of 70 million people, of whom 44 million live in the US. The patron saint, whose feast day has been in the Christian calendar since the ninth century, is credited with converting the country to Christianity.

In Dublin Tuesday, the two-hour “The Sky’s the Limit” parade started in Parnell Square on the north of the city, weaved through the main streets and crossed the River Liffey to end on the south side at St Patrick’s Cathedral.

A coach dating back to 1791 and drawn by six horses, brought Lord Mayor councillor Eibhlin Byrne to the reviewing stand.

“It is a fantastic day with blue skies,” said festival chief executive officer Donal Shiels, while McAleese trumpeted Irish people’s ability “to be family to one another from Beijing to Bahrain and from Belfast to Bantry”.

Source:http://www.google.com/hostednews/afp/article/ALeqM5j4MXSB1ciIz2URWNARwFsziXW2Fw

Safer or Stupid? Some Gay Men ’PrEP’ for Sex

•March 10, 2009 • Leave a Comment

More than two decades into the AIDS epidemic, the well-known conundrum of condom burnout among gay men has produced a highly controversial underground practice. “Pre-exposure prophylaxis,” or PrEP, involves taking a comprehensive anti-retroviral drug, usually tenofivir, before having sex.

Some men are actually doing this because they take safer sex seriously indeed. One doctor told me of two patients who took the drug before they had protected sex with strangers as an added preventative in case a condom breaks.

But for the vast majority of gay men, PrEP means a key to not using a condom. That’s what makes it such a hot-button issue among AIDS researchers, doctors and activists. The theory behind is that the anti-retroviral drug prevents HIV from grafting itself onto healthy cells and replicating. When HIV first enters the human body, there isn’t much of it; theoretically, if those few viruses swimming around the bloodstream don’t have anywhere to go, they’ll die out–just as do millions of germs we come across every day that don’t affect us.

One prominent doctor in Boston maintained that PrEP, despite its bad rep, is necessary as one more tool in the arsenal of AIDS fighters. But others see it as an enabler for those men who don’t want to bother using protection.

“Disco dosing” has actually been for a few years among the PNP (party-and-play) crowd–that is, men who like to have sex while high on crystal meth or GHB (or both). There is another such cocktail known (especially on the West Coast) as “MTV” — meth, tenofovir, and Viagra. It’s these men who have been begging, borrowing or stealing anti-retrovirals from their HIV-positive friends.

In an era when the AIDS “cocktail” drugs are widely prescribed, it’s not hard for such patients to tell physicians or clinics that they lost their prescription or ran out early. “You can get Viread [a branded anti-retroviral] at many gay bars or clubs,” says Bob Adams, managing editor of HIV Plus.

“Patients don’t get the fifth degree if they say they’ve run out,” says Kenneth Mayer, director of Brown University’s AIDS program and medical researcher out of Fenway Community Health in Boston. “It’s easy enough to get more.”

AIDS physicians argue vociferously that PrEP is a poor substitute for that millimeter of latex. But they also acknowledge that many men are sick of condoms, or that they find themselves flagging while pausing in the heat of passion to “put on the raincoat.”

It’s difficult to find any doctor who advocates for PrEP among sexually active gay men–and nearly impossible to find any who talk openly to their patients about its possibilities. I did find one Los Angeles doctor who has prescribed anti-retrovirals for at least one patient who has not tested positive for HIV and has unprotected sex, but he would only discuss it on deep background.

Studying PrEP
One study published in a peer-reviewed journal a few years ago looked at black urban men who have sex with men. The researchers, based on both coasts, found a surprisingly high number of men queried at black-oriented Circuit events had heard of PrEP–nearly one-third–and several had tried it or knew someone who did.

The Centers for Disease Control is undertaking research in Thailand, the United States and Africa to try to discover whether PrEP is effective. the CDC joins international organizations in such studies. There are so many studies that one website does nothing but track them.

While it’s easy to pooh-pooh PrEP as fallback among self-indulgent gay men, the researchers point to situations where condoms are not an option, aren’t as readily available, or other factors. For example, some women are forced into sex with HIV-positive men as partners or sex workers. Then there are IV drug users–not the most cautious group about disease control.

There are men in serodiscordant relationships. And then there are men who lie about their HIV status to partners.

All of that adds up to a serious look at this contentious issue.

Source:http://www.edgeboston.com/index.php?ch=news&sc=&sc2=features&sc3=&id=88218

California Gay Clubs

•February 19, 2009 • 1 Comment

Old world Bulgaria does not exist today except in its architecture and historical monuments. The capital city of Bulgaria, Sofia, is where you will find most new world environments and a huge collection of Bulgaria gay clubs. The gay community is visible and growing in Sofia and you will find a huge commercial gay scene here in Bulgaria gay clubs, discos, and many areas for cruising. You will also find more people that are out of the closet here than you will in other areas of Bulgaria.

Spartacus may be the most popular of gay clubs in the city and is a huge disco center located in the urban downtown area of Sofia. This location is just a stone’s throw from the National Parliament of Bulgaria, and is the most popular of all Bulgaria’s gay clubs. Spartacus is open every night for dancing and drinking and mingling with those in the gay community.

Other gay clubs that you will want to check out in Sofia include the Flamingo and the Club Amor. Both of these venues offer huge dance floors and drinking until the very wee hours of the morning. If you are looking for something more intimate in the gay club scene, you may want to check out the Luna Lounge, or Expose.

The city of Plovdiv in Bulgaria is also home to several of Bulgaria’s very good gay clubs as it is Bulgaria’s second largest city. Here you will find establishments such as Caligula, a happening dance spot that offers two disco dance floors and hot drinks with hot men all night long. Plovdiv is also a fashionista’s paradise with shops offering your favourite labels of Fendi, Bulgari, and Calvin Klein.

No matter what you are looking for in Bulgaria, use our online directory for a comprehensive listing of Bulgaria gay clubs. Here you will find all the information you need on Bulgaria gay clubs!

Source:http://ezinearticles.com/?Bulgaria-Gay-Clubs&id=1974223

Gay and Lesbian Committment Ceremonies – Ideas to Plan & What to Expect

•February 13, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Perhaps you are planning a gay or lesbian commitment ceremony and you are not sure what the essential elements are to the ceremony. Or maybe you have been invited to a commitment ceremony and are just not sure what to expect. Gay and lesbian comment ceremonies are very much the same as traditional weddings, and the ceremony is nearly identical. The only difference is that a commitment ceremony is not legally binding in many areas yet. It is merely a public affirmation of the couple’s commitment in front of their friends and family.

A commitment ceremony can take place with gay, lesbian or transgendered couples. This ceremony could be formal or casual, and will depend on the couple’s wishes and the rules of the officiant or house of worship it is being held in. Generally speaking, this is a simple outline of how a gay or lesbian commitment ceremony will occur.

Processional - There may or may not be a processional, it depends on the couple. If the couple chooses to have friends stand up for them, they may start the processional, following by any other roles the couple has assigned (flower girl, ring bearer). The couple may choose to walk the processional alone or with an escort. One partner may be waiting at the front, or both may walk separately. Or, the couple may choose to forgo this tradition altogether. It is entirely up to what the couple feels comfortable with.

Greeting – The officiant will welcome the guests and say a few words about the couple, their relationship, why they are there, and about the ceremony in general.

Readings / Music – Depending on the couple’s preference, there may be passages, quotes, or readings which may incorporate the theme of love in them. Music or hymns may also be played, depending on the couple’s preference.

Vows – The couple will make a commitment to each other, just as in a traditional wedding.

Exchange of Rings – The couple will then exchange rings and express the meaning of the rings to each other.

Pronouncement of Marriage – The officiant will announce that the couple is now married/joined/united/wed. The wording is entirely up to the officiant and couple. Should the couple choose to kiss, the officiant will announce it.

Recessional – The couple will leave the ceremony location as unified partners. Similar to traditional weddings.

Reception – Most couples will follow the ceremony with a reception of some kind. The reception may be formal or casual. It may or may not include the traditional wedding elements such as first dance, cake cutting, or bouquet toss. Whatever the couple feels comfortable with is what should be included in the reception.

Source:http://ezinearticles.com/?Gay-and-Lesbian-Committment-Ceremonies—Ideas-to-Plan-andamp;-What-to-Expect&id=789334

Gay Men Psychology

•February 12, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Gay men are said to be usually third or further born from the same mother. You might wish to check it out sometime. I am first born therefore less likely to become gay; also both my parents and all grandparents first born as well. What is your birth order? Therefore the tendencies have next to no chance for me, which I can tell you is a good thing; because I love women. Being first born also has some nurturing characteristics to fend for yourself. Where as a third or forth born sibling has a shield of an older offspring for protection. Being third born also comes with it a slight, sometimes not even visible sense of inferiority, which can cause periods of depression. Such periods of down and out are fairly typical amongst humans and many of the studies of psychology suggest it is much more widespread than is seen in society. It appears to be human nature, others would prescribe you Prozac or such things. Interesting really. Some would call these problems, but the more they study them psychologists feel they are normal. Gay men often have such syndromes and work through these, often looking towards the strength of another man, which they are drawn towards. They are able to key off each other to find strength together. The difference is the constrains of society on the individual and rapid increase in changes have not been matched by the genetic evolutionary changes needed for human beings to perform at optimum levels within a highly populated and strict society with contradictory rules to the innate characteristics of mankind coupled with a non-understanding of best methods to nurture, teach and understanding of how the human brain learns and which stimulates are best suited to that need of the overall society. Does this make sense to you? Read it again and think about it?

Source:http://ezinearticles.com/?Gay-Men-Psychology&id=34459

Gay Pride Jewelry – Gift Guide

•February 10, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Every time you give a gift to someone, you have the opportunity to show your appreciation of their unique character. It can reinforce many different sentiments; confidence in the person’s ability, affection for their style, support of their endeavor or recognition of their accomplishment.

But the gift of jewelry is unique; by virtue of the fact that it’s worn on the person’s body. Pride jewelry is distinctive because it recognizes and supports the universal right to love whoever we choose.

What makes gay pride jewelry exceptional is the use of symbols and colors which have a particular sexual connotation. For instance many gay pride jewelry items feature interlocking male or female gender insignia or show the figures of two women or two men intertwined in a loving embrace.

The rainbow flag has been adopted by the gay rights movement as a symbol of tolerance and appreciation for all of the ways that love expresses itself through human beings. This timeless symbol was developed by artist Gilbert Baker in 1978 and over time has evolved to become the most widely used in designing gay pride jewelry.

Presenting a pride jewelry gift is an outstanding way to show your solidarity and support of a person’s sexual preference and their right to be free from discrimination and social oppression. It’s an excellent way to demonstrate and acknowledge the principle of “what affects one of us, affects all of us.”

In addition to beauty, gay pride jewelry also serves as a voice that sends an unmistakable message. Just as the slogan “make love, not war” became a rallying call in the 1960s against the Vietnam War, the term “Gay power” took root in our consciousness.

For women and men alike, pride jewelry reaffirms their sexuality, their self esteem and their right to marry. One of the most popular choices in gay pride jewelry is based around the number “1138.” There are earrings, bracelets, necklaces and rings which prominently feature this number that represents the amount of federal rights, protections and benefits that are granted through marriage.

With the recent landmark ruling in the state of California in the United States, which allows same-sex couples to marry, a gay pride jewelry gift from the 1138 collection would be a significant way to commemorate this legal victory that has been years in the making.

A gift of gay pride jewelry is truly one of the most personal ways to touch the heart and uplift the spirit: a most appropriate way to honor a special person. That special person could well be yourself; wearing gay pride jewelry is a tangible way to stay firmly in touch with your ideals. And it’s a beautiful way to announce your commitment to diversity, equality and tolerance to the world.

Source:http://ezinearticles.com/?Gay-Pride-Jewelry—Gift-Guide&id=1705268

Divorce, Marriage and Gay Rights

•February 9, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Some in the Christian Right political strong hold say that we must prevent gay marriage in our nation. Some say that the Gay community is going around disrespecting others and demanding respect, as they call people names such as liars, homophics, stupid, fearful, ignorant. Where as, both sides have their views, we must all understand that allowing a division in our nation over infighting over the gay marriage issue does no one any good. Some very out spoken Christian Right members say no one should support gay marriage when a group acts with such behavior, it is rewarding the wrong things in doing so. They say that we must all stand tall against gay marriage and make our votes heard and discharge any politician, which promotes the thought. Others against gay marriage contend that the gay and lesbian community will not control their fringe and denies that their tactics are wrong. If you support such vindictive behavior by allowing gay marriage you do a disservice to our society and civilization. Gay marriage issue needs to take a back seat for 10-years until that group can control there attacking and vendetta charged ways. Some on the far-right Christian Right say that they cannot be trusted with the support of the whole and they owe an apology to all straight couples for their abominable behavior. It seems like a whole lot of furious sound out there and who knows what comes next, but we can be insured on more controversy over this subject in the future can’t we? Consider all this in 2006.Source:http://ezinearticles.com/?Divorce,-Marriage-and-Gay-Rights&id=174075

Gay Men at Increased Risk for Drug Addiction and Alcoholism

•January 16, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Gay Men Appear at a Greater Risk for Drug Addiction and Alcoholism According to research, it appears that gay men and women are at a greater risk of developing drug addiction or alcohol addiction than heterosexuals. Homosexuality is associated with issues such as internalized homophobia, shame, prejudice, discrimination, all fertile ground for the development of drug addiction or alcoholism. Different than most populations, all of the issues mentioned above, seem to be fostered within the family system and therefore are present from day one.

The Gay Family System and Drug Addiction For a moment imagine being parents and waiting for the day your son or daughter announces the day of their wedding, only to find out they are gay / lesbian and that day will never take place or that they will never have children the conventional way. It is rare a family is accepting of the situation and offers encouragement. The day of “coming out” is usually met with shock, anger, disappointment, embarasment or denial. In most cases, these emotions are presented in a less than productive manner creating deeper feelings of shame, resentment or depression on the part of the gay man or woman. When this occurs, what better way to cope than to turn to alcohol or drugs. This is generally the beginning of their drug addiction or alcoholism. The problem here is that it does nothing to change others beliefs or the way the gay man feels. Drug Addiction or alcoholism just turns an already complex situation into a more difficult one.

Mental Illness, Drug Addiction, Alcoholism, Dual Diagnosis and the Gay Man or Woman When we research gay drug addiction, gay drug rehab, crystal meth addiction or gay alcoholism we find an increase in gay drug addiction or gay alcoholism across the board. When taking a look at gay drug addiction and gay drug rehab admissions, we have to take a look at associated mental health issues. It appears that the majority of gay men admitted to gay drug rehab suffer from a co- occuring mental health disorder such as depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety disorder just to name a few. As with drug addiction or alcoholism this is easy to understand when one examines the challenges a gay man or woman has to face. Growing up in a predominantly heterosexual society with strong views on sexuality, homophobia is something a gay man or gay woman must face on a daily basis. When faced with constant difficulties relating to family, relationships, self worth, sexual idenity anyone’s mental health is sure to be challenged. Whne many gay men or women are faced with feelings of depression, they turn to drugs or alcohol which in most cases ends up in a drug addiction or alcohol addiction. This is referred to as dual diagnosis; a mental health disorder in conjunction with drug addiction or alcoholism.

Florida’s Gay Population and a Florida Gay Alcohol Rehab

•January 15, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Florida’s Gay and lesbian population is growing daily and with it is a growing need for gay and lesbian services. For the purpose of this article we are concerned with gay drug rehab, gay dual diagnosis and gay alcohol rehab services. Regardless of where a person is from, they bring their personal history with them. In the case of the gay and lesbian, the personal histories of which I speak are related to prejudice, discrimination, internalized hompohobia and shame. Growing up gay and having to deal with the attitudes of the general public and family, have led many gay and lesbians to the world of drug addiction and alcoholism. Unfortunately, what happens is the attitudes of the heterosexual population become worse as the gay man or woman becomes drug dependent and their ability to cope with their feelings diminish even more.

Florida Gay Alcohol Rehab

Now imagine that we ask a gay or lesbian to check into an alcohol rehab run by a group of heterosexual men and women. It is like asking an anorexic to check into an addiction treatment program for compusive overeaters. This could be their worst nightmare. Don’t misunderstand me, this doesn’t mean that the alcohol rehab has to be run by all gay men and women. That is not the real world. The alcohol rehab must, as a minimum, have a gay alcohol rehab component, within the alcohol rehab itself. This will provide the gay or lesbian with a “safe space” in which to express their feelings and thoughts without thinking they are being judged. Their are many other clinical benefits derived from a gay alcohol rehab run in this fashion, such as being able to eal with internalized homophobia, but it also allow for the heterosexual to deal with their own homophobia. Everybody wins!

Jonathan Huttner is a partner in Lakeview Health Systems’s a alcohol and drug rehab, which has its own gay friendly alcohol rehab component called Freedom Rings. Freedom rings provides alcohol and drug rehab for the GLBT population.